one of senior daughter got married!!!

Good news - one of senior daughter got married!!!
The whole house is sharing this happiest moment. Halima got married on 18th June 2011. Halima, Roshani and Soha are three sisters who came to B-e-t when their cousin got them to B-e-t home in year 2008, when Halima was only seventeen and half. Both the younger sisters were admitted and when the question was asked to her cousin what about Halima? Her cousin answered that they were planning to get her married, Salima Bhat (didi) manager at B-e-t home Kupwara felt very bad that we all were unable to do anything for her. Halima had left studies when her parents expired. And thus there was a stop in her academic career. When they came to B-e-t for it was the time when b-e-t was not having any elder girls and mostly no admission for elder girls who had left their studies. Looking at the wish to help but unable to process for the same due to some constraints of the house didi thought of calling Adhik Kadam(Bhaiya) chairperson of BWF. Finally didi spoke to Adhik bhaiya and as his nature is very friendly and helpful he said if it is not been done till date we will not stick to any rules and regulations. And that’s how all these three sister hap-pens to be the part of this heavenly family now. The wish always remained within of helping Halima to develop her-self in such a way that she becomes independent. Didi told Halima we will surely find something for you as it was first time that someone was admitted to home of happiness without studies, to do something else.
Looking at the family background, the father of these three sisters; Abdul Sattar Mir was laborer in Hanwara Tehsil. He had two brothers both were militants. This was the cause why Police and others security agencies used to torture him and forced him to give them information which he never had. Later on both her uncles expired and the family thought now the problem would end but it didn’t stop here; security agencies did not stop after dismiss of the re-maining two brother. They insisted that Halima's father had weapons of their brothers. At the end their father got away from this materialistic world by an attack. Their mother who is not able to speak later went mad and started roaming on the streets. So the three sisters and one brother were supported by the villagers till the time they got admitted in the home of love, affection, self-respect, confidence and a great human family.
Further after being part of the heavenly world of B-e-t, Halima was taught stitching almost for a year. She simultane-ously used to work for the house; she was paid for the support that she provided. In this way she not only got inde-pendent in every aspect, but also a lovely family to rely on. After completing her stitching course, she was called back by her guardians and now at age of twenty she got married with something in her hand i.e. stitching. The person she is got married to is also a genuine person he has lot of land and farming as the main occupation. Remaining two sis-ters are yet the members of the house and completing their education.
Halima’s marriage was the happiest moment for papa(Bhaiya) and mummy(Didi) of the home(B-e-t home) as parents should. Papa did kanyadan and umi with duaien are happy to see the daughter married. Responsibilities do not end here for didi and bhaiya, now they are promoted and playing the role of mother-in-law and father-in-law for the Halima’s husband.
Wishing for your blessing for the
newly married couple!!
And lot of love for all the homes!!
Jameela Rather
BeT, Kupwara
(Presently in Pune for Education)